We love our children no matter what they do!
Love is the inner strength and innate fuel that drives us to learn and change for the better; Our love for our children is the secret behind our endeavor to raise them in the best way.
But what is more important than this love buried deep within us is our expression of it and the messages that teach our children about this love, its nature, strength, source and conditions.
Our love for our children is a certain thing and there is no dispute over it. It has authentic roots and cannot be diminished or shaken for any reason whatsoever.
But does the stability and strength of this love reach your child, or is it conditioned on his actions? Or on his superiority, manners, and exemplary behavior? And if it is not as you expected your love stops?
To confirm the answer inside you, ask yourself: Does my child think so, or is my love for him constant, uninterrupted and unaffected by his misbehavior or mistakes?
The strength and continuity of our love and keeping this in their minds is our children’s first way to feel safe; Imagine that the safety rope frays every time you make a mistake! A painful feeling does not help change or perform better, as many parents believe.
Even if the result is instant, its negative impact is deep in their hearts.
Love is love, indivisible and unconditionally bound. Our love for our children is eternal and strong. Always make sure that you deliver this message to your child, clearly; It gives them a lasting sense of security that no one else can give them.